Posts on Boundaries and Relationships

When is it time to leave?

When is it time to leave?

One of the toughest boundary questions that I hear people asking is how to know whether (and when) it’s time to end a relationship that’s not working for them.

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How can you make things right when you’ve done nothing wrong?

How can you make things right when you’ve done nothing wrong?

In a healthy relationship, you usually know when something’s wrong. And when you ask if there’s a problem, you get an honest answer. “I’m feeling hurt because you didn’t include me yesterday.” Or “It seems to me that I’m doing most of the work on this project, and that doesn’t feel good.” You talk things over.

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Setting Boundaries When a Friend Has Wronged You

Setting Boundaries When a Friend Has Wronged You

Setting boundaries with a friend is often hard! A while ago, someone found my website by searching on what is now the title of this post. I learned this while reading a letter that a friend had written to another friend after being treated badly. So I...

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The Need to Be Right

The Need to Be Right

How often do you find yourself stuck in a pointless debate, disagreeing with someone over something that doesn’t matter? Or maybe it does matter, and you just can’t make any headway. What do you do? Here are some tips to keep you centered in the heat of...

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